Everything is fair in Love and War!!
(Before Writing, I just want to say this is purely my thought.. I wrote as I thought.. I hope I am not hurting any body’s sentiments through this.)
Sometimes we are so engrossed in our lives that we fall apart from the ones those actually held a selfless compassion and we get close to one with mean and selfish pressure entrusted upon us forever. We comment on the fact that we have got best –ironically-worst life partner but yet we forge our own misleads and misdeeds upon others. Newton‘s law of motion is also vindicated upon the human lives, emotions and relationships. We build faith saying we trust people but yet again we say that person hurt us. But why don’t we humans feel trust is entirely subjective. It’s a pressure imbibed on the other person to keep you happy, but we people are just us!!!
Talking about 21st century’s relationships, social networking sites is major distractor of that. With my previous note on how FACEBOOK can be healthier, it’s us who keep ourselves healthier not a meager machine or psycho-socially controlling social network. If we start re-searching we will find there has been a greater change in faith, trust and believe between life partners. Guys and girls have taken this relationship as a bunch of games and revealing their pleasures and depressions in social pages.
There was recent news on how a girl hanged herself when her ex-boyfriend had setup a status that he is happy from a breakup. These are genocides that people are constantly making out of nothing. People still worship Radha and Shri Krishna but still forget the actual meaning of Love, Compassion and Sacrifice.
It so happens even I have seen in my peer group, people think he/she is cute, ask for date, roam about and a few major clashes and then a broken heart. It has become a common issue in teen and tweens (people in twenties till they marry). I usually feel that people are even unaware of what actually they want and what really they should expect. I have even seen girls wooing boys for personal gains, for money! That’s ridiculously disgusting. And even boys become more flirt and sometime a big time pervert. Guys & girls, do you really seek that’s a good thing?
There has recent discussion on newsletter sent by Chetan Bhagat. I am truly moved the way he has put things about choosing girls. I don’t say guys have that mind-set. But there are girls who motivate into being one. But then argument arises is it the seeds that’s come first or the fruits? It’s all our mental conscience. We try our senses more than our brains to see who is really good for you… Some are, yes very lucky enough to get the Chosen One! But rest others put on status –“Alone”, “Need a Partner” or what-so-ever!
Stop making yourself available or self –deprived. Love is un-expected. It happens to everyone, don’t deliberately jump for it. Have friends, run along with life, and enjoy nature or whatever you like. Jumping to conclusion even before the introduction starts, is foolishness of your life. If there is a war there is love too, learn to love and fight for true reasons. Heart is just a blood pumping life giving machinery created by nature. There is nothing called thinking through heart!! There is bounty of emotional subjects over bearing people’s life but there is a major system called Brain. Utilize that in this millennium. It’s worth to save your life from misery. I guess my friends will surely enjoy a life if they act according to their age and think through their brains…
Sometimes we are so engrossed in our lives that we fall apart from the ones those actually held a selfless compassion and we get close to one with mean and selfish pressure entrusted upon us forever. We comment on the fact that we have got best –ironically-worst life partner but yet we forge our own misleads and misdeeds upon others. Newton‘s law of motion is also vindicated upon the human lives, emotions and relationships. We build faith saying we trust people but yet again we say that person hurt us. But why don’t we humans feel trust is entirely subjective. It’s a pressure imbibed on the other person to keep you happy, but we people are just us!!!
Talking about 21st century’s relationships, social networking sites is major distractor of that. With my previous note on how FACEBOOK can be healthier, it’s us who keep ourselves healthier not a meager machine or psycho-socially controlling social network. If we start re-searching we will find there has been a greater change in faith, trust and believe between life partners. Guys and girls have taken this relationship as a bunch of games and revealing their pleasures and depressions in social pages.
There was recent news on how a girl hanged herself when her ex-boyfriend had setup a status that he is happy from a breakup. These are genocides that people are constantly making out of nothing. People still worship Radha and Shri Krishna but still forget the actual meaning of Love, Compassion and Sacrifice.
It so happens even I have seen in my peer group, people think he/she is cute, ask for date, roam about and a few major clashes and then a broken heart. It has become a common issue in teen and tweens (people in twenties till they marry). I usually feel that people are even unaware of what actually they want and what really they should expect. I have even seen girls wooing boys for personal gains, for money! That’s ridiculously disgusting. And even boys become more flirt and sometime a big time pervert. Guys & girls, do you really seek that’s a good thing?
There has recent discussion on newsletter sent by Chetan Bhagat. I am truly moved the way he has put things about choosing girls. I don’t say guys have that mind-set. But there are girls who motivate into being one. But then argument arises is it the seeds that’s come first or the fruits? It’s all our mental conscience. We try our senses more than our brains to see who is really good for you… Some are, yes very lucky enough to get the Chosen One! But rest others put on status –“Alone”, “Need a Partner” or what-so-ever!
Stop making yourself available or self –deprived. Love is un-expected. It happens to everyone, don’t deliberately jump for it. Have friends, run along with life, and enjoy nature or whatever you like. Jumping to conclusion even before the introduction starts, is foolishness of your life. If there is a war there is love too, learn to love and fight for true reasons. Heart is just a blood pumping life giving machinery created by nature. There is nothing called thinking through heart!! There is bounty of emotional subjects over bearing people’s life but there is a major system called Brain. Utilize that in this millennium. It’s worth to save your life from misery. I guess my friends will surely enjoy a life if they act according to their age and think through their brains…
-Sruti
Friday, August 10, 2012
